Lori: Healing Grief with Community, Independence, and Laughter

Lori lights up every room with her radiant smile and warm spirit, ensuring that everyone at Hope Services in Santa Cruz feels welcomed and included. For nearly 20 years, Lori has been a member of the Hope community, building lasting friendships with both staff and fellow participants.
One of the most meaningful aspects of Lori’s life at Hope is the time she shares with her boyfriend, Adrien. The two have been together for 18 years, which to Lori has felt like a lifetime of love. Just the mention of his name brings the biggest smile to her face.
Lori attends the Day Program five days a week and participates in every activity with much joy. Her strong support system and consistent routine have provided a solid foundation as she’s faced life’s inevitable challenges. She has emerged stronger and more resilient with each experience.
Delainey, a Support Specialist at the Santa Cruz office, has been part of Lori’s journey and transformation over the years. She recalls that before Lori joined the Employment, Media, and Community Connections (EMCC) program, she was sweet but much more reserved. Lori recalls that during her time at Cabrillo Community College, she struggled to find a passion and circle of friends.
Now 63, Lori has experienced significant changes in her life. Until last year, she lived with her parents in a home that was difficult to access, which made spending time with friends and Adrien challenging. Tragically, she lost both parents within six months of each other, leaving her to navigate the deep grief of losing her family home and her beloved parents.
While navigating grief, Lori’s resilience shone through. With the support of her sisters, Adrien, her friends, and the dedicated staff at Hope Services, she continues to thrive. She has transitioned from Independent Living Services (ILS) to Supported Living Services (SLS) and now lives independently with the help of Hope’s team. “They have been very helpful!” Lori says. They assist her with groceries, cooking, and driving her to visit Adrien.
Joining EMCC has opened new doors for Lori, including employment opportunities like her job at HopeTHRIFT in Watsonville. Delainey shares that Lori is very proud about earning her own money. Her independence has given her a new sense of freedom and empowerment. Recently, she found two glasses while thrifting and couldn’t wait to show them off during Delainey’s next visit. For Lori, the possibilities ahead feel endless.
Looking to the future, Lori hopes to spend more time with Adrien and her friends. She dreams of one day visiting Jamaica, inspired by her love for Bob Marley. If you’re lucky enough to meet Lori, she’ll greet you with a cheerful high five and plenty of laughter.
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